
 Ken and I bought all brand new plates and bowls about 2 months ago.  Nothing special simple all white sets (see photo above).  We just wanted dishes that matched.  We have been together 7 years now and we felt it was time to have dishes that matched.  Against my gut feeling we bought our simple sets from Wal-mart.  2 months have passed and now 2 bowls have cracks in them and are basically worthless.  I told Ken that this would happen.  There is a conspiracy will you in regards to consumerism this day and age.  Cheap products are not made to last, if they were business would go under.  Know what is the scariest part about it?  People don’t seem to care and actually expect it.  It’s that mentality well I didn’t pay that much for it so I am glad I used it for as long as I did.  And head back out to the store to buy a new set not thinking twice about it. 
After the second bowl cracked yesterday I suggested to Ken that we use the china my grandmother had given us for our wedding.  Which Ken asked well don’t we want to use that for just special occasions?  In which I asked, what’s the point of having something nice if you never use it?  Besides it has been sitting in their boxes since our wedding 2 ½ years ago.  I don’t have a china hutch yet to display it so I just get to see the boxes and it saddens me. 
My grandmother once we announced our moved up wedding date (see unexpected baby Leila) asked if we had registered for our china in which I giggled and said didn’t even think about it.  So my grandmother went out and picked out a pattern for Ken and I.  From her heart to our home she picked something simple and timeless.  What better way to appreciate such a loving gift than to use it everyday?
So am I crazy?  Do you use fine china everyday?  Special occasions?  Should I just start keeping an eye out for a china set at a thrift store and spend the same amount that I did on the cheap Wal-mart stuff?  And use the second hand china everyday since it doesn’t have the same sentimental value so if something breaks I don’t feel horrible?
Honest I need all opinions!  What would you do?